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Sat, 10 Jun 2006
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| The Amazing Powers Of Self Hypnosis |
I want to share a success story about hypnosis
for weight loss.
There are so many, but this one stands out in my
mind and touches my
heart. I was working in the summer of 2004 with a
young lady named Jen. She
was 19 at the time and was scheduled to undergo
gastric bypass surgery.
This surgery is very drastic and involved stapling
the stomach so that
the person can no longer eat large meals. She also
already had
liposuction but regained all of her weight. Her
father had died and all her
mother wanted was for Jen to be happy.
As they both sat in my office in tears, Jen
told me that this was
her last attempt to lose weight before killing
herself. After her mom
left the room, we began the hypnosis session. While
in a trance, Jen
remembered being abused by her father. It was
traumatic for her to recall
this, but helpful at the same time. Jen also
revealed that she had
"built up a protective layer" with the excess
weight. She explained while
under hypnosis that the weight repelled men and
kept her "safe."
After Jen was out of hypnosis, I invited her
mom back into the
office. The three of us discussed this unfortunate
event. Her mom said that
she had suspected that it happened, but never had
proof until now. Jen
returned the next week and we began working on
re-building her
self-esteem using hypnosis. This is very easy to do
with hypnosis since the
messages go directly to the subconscious mind. If
you want to do this
yourself, just make a tape with positive
suggestions that you play in bed
each night as you go to sleep.
In the four weeks that followed, I was able to
reframe the way she
felt about eating right, exercising, and taking
care of herself in
general. After only six sessions, I told Jen that I
had done all the work
we needed to do.
Last week, Jen sent me an e-mail with a
picture. You see, I had
programmed her to continue to eat right, exercise,
and take care of
herself. Well, the picture she sent looked like a
model! Jen had gone from
325 lbs. to 115 lbs! The e-mail was even more
inspirational. Here's what
she wrote:
Dear Steve,
It has been a year since our last session.
The pounds have been
consistently dropping. I eat differently and don't
even try to. I
exercise three times a week and love it. Most
importantly, my view of life
is completely different now. I went from being
overweight and suicidal
to being thin, sexy, beautiful and totally
confident. My mom is happier
than ever and so is my husband. That's right! I am
married. He's 6'4",
an architect, and wants kids. I feel like I'm
living the life of my
dreams. Hypnosis is amazing. You taught me that I
could do ANYTHING that I
BELIEVE I can do. You are right. Feel free to share
this letter with
others. I want the world to know about the power of
hypnosis and the
power of the human mind!
With much love and respect,
Jen
In my line of work I get to see this happen
often. Jen is one of
the many people who decided to make a powerful
change in her life.
Hypnosis helped, but the change was really due to
her commitment to herself.
I hope that the sharing of Jen's journey will
inspire you to create
whatever powerful change you desire in your life.
There are no obstacles,
except the ones YOU create in your mind. Remove
those obstacles, and
you will easily live the life of YOUR dreams.
About the Author
Steve G. Jones is a board certified Clinical
Hypnotherapist. He is a
member of the National Guild of Hypnotists,
American Board of
Hypnotherapy, president of the American Alliance of
Hypnotists, on the board of
directors of the Los Angeles chapter of the
American Lung Association,
and director of the California state registered
Steve G. Jones School
of Hypnotherapy. Learn more about his products by
visiting: http://www.betterlivingwithhypnosis.com

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Sat, 13 May 2006
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| Hypnosis Myths Exploded! |
5 Hypnosis Myths Exploded OVER the
years, hypnosis has picked up all sorts of weird
associations from stage hypnotists, the media and
superstition. This is a great shame, because in
reality, hypnosis is your single most effective
tool for change. Hypnosis is your birthright, and
you should know how to use it so it doesn't use
you. Here we dispel the biggest hypnosis
myths. Hypnosis Myth 1) All hypnosis
is the same As with anything, hypnosis can
be good, bad or indifferent. The most common is
old-style authoritarian hypnosis of the type "You
are getting sleepy, you are feeling confident".
Unsurprisingly, this sort of hypnosis doesn't work
well with many people. Good hypnosis uses subtle
psychological principles and advanced
communication patterns. It's like the
difference between a football coach who thinks
you'll perform best if he yells at you, compared
with the more elegant style of a great leader who
knows that to get the best from his people, he
needs to understand motivation, to cajole,
encourage and reward. Hypnosis Downloads.com offers
hundreds of sessions using the best type of
hypnosis. Hypnosis Myth 2)
Subliminals work Subliminals are words that
you can't hear. Common sense says they shouldn't
work, and there's no research proving that they
do. Hypnosis Myth 3) Some people
can't be hypnotized The only reason you
can't be hypnotized is if you are incapable of
paying attention due to extremely low IQ or brain
damage. That's not to say that every hypnotist can
hypnotize you however. The more flexible the
hypnotist, the more effective she will be with the
largest number of people. Hypnosis Myth
4) Hypnosis is something weird that other
people do to you If you couldn't go into
hypnosis, you wouldn't be able to sleep, to learn,
or get nervous through 'negative self hypnosis'.
(You know when you imagine things going wrong and
it makes you feel anxious? Well that's self
hypnosis!) Hypnosis is simply a deliberate
utilization of the REM (Rapid Eye Movement) or
dream state. We're not giving people medication
here – if it wasn't a natural ability, hypnosis
wouldn't work! Hypnosis Myth 5) You
lose control in hypnosis Crazy news stories,
stage hypnotists and gossip have created the
illusion that you lose control in hypnosis. In
fact, when hypnotized, you are relaxed and
focused – and able to choose to get up and walk
away at any time. You choose to give your
attention to the hypnotist, and you can withdraw
it at any time. If you have been scared of
hypnosis in the past, this article has hopefully
convinced you to at least give it a try. But
remember, ensure what you're getting is the real
thing. Visit www.hypnosisdownloads.com
[Notes for use: you are licensed only to use this
material unaltered to promote the
www.hypnosisdownloads.com affiliate program.]
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Sun, 07 May 2006
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| Depression and Erectile Function – Psychology of Sexuality |
Depression and Erectile Function –
Psychology of Sexuality
Depression and Erectile Function – Psychology
of Sexuality By Peterson Marky
A recent research showed that the brain
activity is totally different during sexual
activity. That is why men with depression have
difficulty in having satisfactory life. The
serotonin level in depressed patients is lower
than normal adults.
If the depression is treated with right
medicines, their erectile function will also
improve significantly. But the class of
medications known as SSRI antidepressants are
used to treat depression in men. But
unfortunately these drugs also cause erectile
dysfunction in 65% of men taking SSRI for
depression.
Depression and ED are highly inter related. If
a man is mentally depressed, he will have
erectile dysfunction and similarly a man who has
erectile dysfunction because of some other
medical condition may have depression. So if a
depressed man taking drugs for that will
eventually have ED.
The recent research shows that in men
undergoing treatment for depression, the new
class of drugs called PDE5 has improved their
erectile function. So in turn it paves a way to
decrease their depression too. So with PDE5 class
drugs both erectile function and symptoms of
depression improved. Viagra, levitra, cialis
belongs to the PDE5 class of drugs.
Another study reveals that underlying
cardiovascular disease may also lead to erectile
dysfunction. Since the cardiac output is low in
such patients, the penile blood flow will be a
bit lower than normal even though they are
sexually aroused. The usage of PDE5 class drugs
had significantly lower blood pressure and heart
rate, improvement in measures of oxygen
consumption and carbon dioxide production.
This study confirms the successful treatment
of ED wit PDE5 class drugs in CHF could not only
improve sexual relationships but overall quality
and success of CHF treatment.
PDE5 class drugs blocks the activity of the
enzyme phospodiesterase type 5 which is active in
multiple tissues and cells. So the effects of
PDE5 class drugs are increased production of
nitric oxide, which is directly responsible for
smooth muscle relaxation. This improves the
functioning of heart and blood vessels.
Reasons for erectile dysfunction are
psychologic and organic in nature.
Harmonal problems or psychologically induced
impotence, stable heart disease, controlled
diabetes, controlled hypertension, chronic
dialysis and kidney transplantation, Parkinson's
disease, mild to moderate conjestive heart
failure, taking antidepressants like SSRI
inhibitors like prozac are organic in nature.
Psychological factors for erectile dysfunction
are many but most often it is related to
depression, performance anxiety, marital relation
or stress etc.
Organic factors include vascular, harmonal, drug
induced. Some medical conditions like
hypertension, diabetes, high cholesterol,
cardiovascular disease, obesity, neurological
disorders also lead to erectile dysfunction.
Drinking too much alcohol and smoking are also
contributing factors in organic ED.
Exercising the pelvic floor muscles, i.e kegel
exercise improved blood supply to pelvic area and
strengthens pelvic muscles. After doing kegel
exercise for 3 months many men reported increase
in erectile function. Life style changes from
sedentary nature also contribute to satisfactory
sex life. as well as to combat mental
depression.
Some herbal products like Ashwagandha,
tribulus terestris are found to increase libido,
muscle strength, stamina and also reduce stress
thus increase sex drive.
About the Author
Peterson Mark regularly contributes articles
to various
ezines about health, fitness, internet marketing.
See his generic cialas blog for
more information on cheap
generic pde5 inhibitors.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?
expert=Peterson_Marky
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Wed, 26 Apr 2006
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| Self confidence booster |
Improve your self confidence in 15
minutes I used to be frighteningly
under confident in social situations. And
although people who know me now would never
believe I used to doubt myself so much I
literally had to learn confidence until it
became a natural part of me. I can tell you
relaxed optimistic confidence is just, well so
much more fun. Here I'll tell you about
the things that made the most difference to my
confidence levels... Some people have
naturally high levels of confidence but everybody
can learn to be more confident Firstly,
it's important to get a clear idea of what self
confidence really means, otherwise you won't know
when you've got it! So, self confidence
means: 1) Being calm. For every
situation in life you need to run on the
appropriate level of emotion. Too much
emotional 'leakage' into a experience can spoil
the experience. You make great strides towards
confidence when you begin to relax in a greater
range of situations. 2) Being cool.
The second part of self confidence is about being
able to relax with uncertainty. To be 'cool' in a
situation really means relaxing with not knowing
how things will pan out. If you truly tolerate
uncertainty, you can do pretty much anything.
3) Not being too concerned with what
others think of you. You know when you
imagine what some place is going to be like
before you go there but when you get there it is
totally different to your imagination? That's how
reliable your imagination is! Stop trusting your
imagination so much. I've long since stopped
bothering to imagine what others think of me
because so often I've turned out to be
wrong. 4) Being specific - where do you
want confidence? 'Confidence' is meaningless
until you tie it to something specific. You are
already confident that you can read these words
or can switch a light on and off. So you don't
need more confidence everywhere. To get what you
want in life you have to establish exactly what
you do want. Where do you want confidence in your
life? Think about the specific situations now and
write them down. You beginning to steer your
brain towards confidence. 5)
Understanding that what you expect is what you
get. Your brain is an organ that needs clear
goals to work towards. When a task has been set
in your brain it will do everything it can do to
bring about the completion of that task. If
you've tried to recall someone's name but can't,
hours later you'll often find their name pops
into your head. The 'trying to recall'
experience set the task or blueprint for your
brain's future subconscious behaviour which
eventually produced the name for you - when you
weren't thinking about it consciously. You can
use this natural mechanism to start feeling more
confident. But, to ensure you set the right task
for your subconscious mind, the next point is
vital. 6) Don't task your mind with
negatives. Instead of: 'I don't want to screw
up' (which sets the task of 'screwing up' for
your brain), set the blueprint for what you do
want! Your brain doesn't work towards what to do
by being told what not to do. And nature has
given you a wonderful natural tool to set the
right task blueprints with. 7) Use
nature's goal-setter: Now you understand how
vital it is to set the right task for you brain,
you need to know how to do this reliably. Good
hypnosis will strongly 'program' the right
blueprint in your mind through the use of your
imagination. If you powerfully imagine feeling
confident and relaxed while in a relaxed hypnotic
state it will be hard for your unconscious mind
to do anything else. The blueprint for relaxation
has been set firmly into your subconscious mind.
3 simple strategies to get you feeling
confident quickly: 1) Think
specifically of the time/place/situation you want
to feel confident in. Remember 'confidence'
doesn't mean anything until you attach it to
something specific. 2) Focus on
words in your mind right now that describe how
you do want to be in that time and place. Maybe
words such as 'calm', 'relaxed' or 'focused'.
Remember your brain works on clear positive
instructions. 3) Close your eyes for
as long as you like and think about how those
words feel. Then, imagine the situation itself
and rehearse it in your mind feeling confident
and relaxed. This way you set the right blueprint
or 'task' for your unconscious mind. You
can repeat this often to make it more effective
and use it with as many areas of your life as you
need to. If you listen to a hypnotic cd or
download that can make the benefits even more
powerful (see my profile below). So if you feel
like you'd be blessed with less confidence than
some other people you can start redressing the
balance by using your mind in the right way right
now. It took me years to learn how to be
more confident - now you can do it in a fraction
of the time. Good luck! Boost your confidence now at
HypnosisDownloads.com
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Thu, 20 Apr 2006
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| Coping with Stress working at home.By Amrou Sukhon |
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So what is working at home, and coping with
stress, really all about? The following reports
includes some fascinating information about
working at home, and stress --info you can use
not just the old stuff they used to tell you.
Most of us have been stressed working at home at
some point. Aside from the stress of having to
find new clients and new jobs, we often encounter
stress because jobs come in mad, occasional
bursts. Some days our to do list is almost empty,
and the following days it seems like we can
hardly keep up.
Deadlines can be overwhelming, and when one is
affected, effectiveness plunges. The brain is no
longer focused on creativity and action.
When stress level stack up, here what to do.
First, reduce stress by... Stopping. Sounds a bit
basic, and it's really hard to do, just stop.
Stress can cause health problems or make problems
worse if you don't learn ways to deal with it.
The next step is to find a way to deal with your
stress. A simple way is to avoid the circumstance
that leads to our stress--but often this is not
feasible. Another way is to change how we react
to stress. This is often the best way.
Well, it's time to take heart and set a few
simple strategies in place that will keep us in
control of our time...and our sanity.
Tips for dealing with working at home stress-
1) Eat a healthy, balanced diet rich in fruits
and vegetables. Reduce or eliminate caffeine
(coffee, black and green tea, cola drinks, and
chocolate). Because caffeine is a stimulant, it
can make you feel more anxious.
2) Exercise. It relieves tension and provides a
timeout from stressful situations.
3) Try to take time everyday to slow down and do
something you enjoy, even if it is just for a few
minutes. Reading a magazine, playing with your
dog, listening to music, reading a book or any
other activity that helps you forget the stresses
of your day can calm you and help you remember
what is important.
4) Work at being cheerful and optimistic. Use
humor to lighten difficult situations.
5) Take very long, relaxing deep breaths anytime
you notice you're feeling stressed.
6) If the nature of any of your tasks allow it,
call upon a colleague who can help you. If you've
never done this before, now is the perfect time
to start. The nice thing about this sort of
arrangement is your colleague will most likely
send jobs your way when he or she gets
overloaded. (Warning: do not hand over tasks that
must be carried out only by you as the principal
of the business. Your reputation is important.)
7) Organizing and simplifying your life. If one
of your main sources of stress is the sheer
number of things that need to be done, getting
organized should help you feel more at peace. A
good sense of organization will also make you
more efficient. Simplifying your life also should
help you feel less overwhelmed.
Set Achievable Daily Goals. If you finish a task
ahead of schedule, start the next... but stick to
a definite cut-off time each day. What you are
doing this week is set up a system that will
continue to work for you.
Follow these tips and before you know it, your
home business dream will be on track once again.
That's how things stand right now. Keep in mind
that any subject can change over time, so be sure
you keep up with the latest news
________________________________________________
Amrou Sukhon is an internet marketing expert who
has successfully promoted many different
affiliate programs, and Helping all who are
determined to succeed. www.goaboutmarketing.com
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